Saturday, June 30, 2012

The Evolution of a Sewing Room

Chapter 1

Where Did It All Come From?!?!?


One of the perks of Empty Nest Syndrome is the empty nest!  When I learned my daughter accepted a job in Richmond, VA,  I toyed with the idea of moving my small sewing room into her larger bedroom, but I talked myself out of it. However, she encouraged me.  In her words, "Why shouldn't you have a bigger sewing room?"

I believe my daughter, who so generously and lovingly encouraged me to take over her bedroom, saved every toy, storybook, shoe, notebook, sneaker, trophy and stuffed animal she ever owned in the eighteen years she occupied that room.  She was a good candidate for Hoarding: Buried Alive.  It's just as much my fault as hers. She didn't buy all that crap those things herself.  Everytime she was away at camp, I threatened to go into her room with a trash bag.  But she protested and I backed down.  As she pulled crap her things out of bookcases, the closet, the dresser and piled it on the floor, I admit, I almost lost it. Then, I thought about my new, bigger sewing room and kept my mouth shut.


With visiting and socializing with friends she may not see again for a long time, it took her three days to sort through and distribute all the crap her belongings.  If I had been given the freedom to dispose of it, everything would have gone to the dump. Thankfully, my daughter believes in "Reduce, Reuse, Recycle" and she was more responsible about getting rid of the crap stuff than I would have been.

It's going to take some time until the new sewing room is just the way I want it. First, I have to make my new space habitable and functional.  Then, I have to make it mine.

To be continued ………


7 comments:

  1. LOL! I remember going through this exercise with my own Mother when I moved out. It is amazing how much junk you accumulate over the first phase of your life. A piece of advice, take your time and think out every function that you want your sewing room to have and be prepared to revise your first ideas as you work in your room. My sewing room is my most favorite room in the house because it does everything I need it to do!

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  2. How exciting, creating a new sewing space. Carolyn gives great advise. Can't wait to see what it becomes.

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  3. Congratulations on your dd getting a job in this economy and to you for getting a new sewing room! I'm with Carolyn, a good plan is worth gold. When I swapped my studio space with my sewing room I had a scale drawing. My dh doesn't move furniture with a plan, but it is a lot easier to move furniture on paper than it is in real life. Like you I had a sewing room that worked but I knew what I wanted from a larger space and I'm sure you do too. Think about what new storage pieces you'll have room for in your new space and what you've always wanted and didn't have room for before. It will be a lot of work but so worth it.

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    1. I've done a scale drawing. The room's layout is a little limiting, but I can try any configuration at all in the drawing. Much easier than moving real furniture.

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  4. Wow, that's a lot of stuff!
    I'm excited for your new sewing room!

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    1. Would you believe there is still a big pile of stuff she kept?

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  5. LOL! Good luck in your new sewing room.

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